1: Pointers
- Apparent development:
- Start with 5–10 clear, tested pointers from traditional sources
- Translate them into modern language
- Learn which pointers address common misconceptions
- Notice which pointers land with different types of people
- Create your own versions that feel authentic
Deeper understanding:
- Pointers arise spontaneously in response to what’s needed
- No pointer is “better” than another
- All pointers are equally false and equally useful
- Trust what naturally emerges in conversation
2: Questions
Apparent development:
- Master the fundamental questions (Who am I What’s aware)
- Learn to break down complex beliefs into simple inquiries
- Practice different ways of asking the same question
- Develop follow-up questions for common responses
- Notice which questions expose assumptions effectively
Deeper understanding:
- Questions arise from genuine curiosity
- There’s no questioner just questioning happening
- The “right” question is whatever’s appearing now
- Not-knowing is more valuable than clever questioning
3: Exercises
Apparent development:
- Learn classic experiments (e.g., headless way)
- Practice guiding others through basic exercises
- Develop variations for different situations
- Create simple exercises for daily life integration
- Document what works and what doesn’t
Deeper understanding:
- Every moment is the exercise
- Nothing needs to be practiced or achieved
- The simplest pointing is often most powerful
- Trust what naturally wants to be explored
4: Analogies
Apparent development:
- Study traditional analogies (screen/movie ocean/waves)
- Create modern versions relevant to today’s life
- Build a collection of analogies for different aspects
- Practice delivering them clearly and concisely
- Notice which analogies resonate with different people
Deeper understanding:
- Fresh analogies arise spontaneously
- The perfect metaphor appears when needed
- All analogies are equally limited and useful
- Trust what naturally illustrates the point
5: Understanding Checks
Apparent development:
- Learn to recognize common misconceptions
- Develop gentle ways to probe understanding
- Practice hearing what’s really being said
- Create progressive checking sequences
- Notice subtle signs of intellectual vs experiential understanding
Deeper understanding:
- There’s no one who needs to understand
- Understanding happens by itself
- Every response is perfect as it is
- Trust the natural unfolding
Finding the balance
1: Start with structure
- Build a basic repertoire in each category
- Practice until they feel natural
- Document what seems to work
- Study how others use these tools
2: Allow spontaneity
- Trust what arises in the moment
- Let go of trying to use the “right” tool
- Be comfortable with not knowing
- Allow fresh expressions to emerge
3: Navigate both realms
- Use structure when helpful
- Let go when it becomes rigid
- Don’t worry about consistency
- Stay open to surprise
Common pitfalls
- Collecting too many tools without deep familiarity
- Trying to force spontaneity
- Doubting natural intuition
- Getting stuck in either structure or formlessness
Remember:
- The toolkit is both essential and unnecessary
- Every tool is both useful and empty
- You’re both developing skills and already complete
- Trust both preparation and spontaneity
The more deeply you know your tools the more easily you can let them go.
The more completely you let them go the more naturally they arise when needed.